Saturday, March 26, 2011
Often I get the chance to be around young children and I love to watch them in their play and how they negotiate their world. Parents at times find themselves apologizing for their child's behavior in situations that are merely kids, being kids. (Do you see the connection to the blogs name?) Parents often attempt to stop any misbehavior that might be judged as inappropriate by other adults that are present. Kids learning is active and often loud. The parent does best to help take off the edges and not stop the behavior. A restricted child is one who lacks confidence and the ability to be assertive and succeed in life. An indulged child expects the seas to part for them as someone is always rescuing them. A child without limits never develops the internal controls to put limits on their own behavior. It is a difficult balance but luckily the balance is not a single point but a broad field where any one of 50 answers might be the right one. parenting is an uncertain science and both parents and children are learning as they go.